Many people will say that cats are not as close to people as dogs and do not like to communicate with their owners. In fact, compared with dogs, cats have their own differences. Of course, the ways of expressing friendship are also different, and some owners do not understand it. Cats express their friendly way, so they think cats are not friendly enough. In fact, this idea really wrongs cats.

The most common ways to show affection are to wrap their tail around you, touch your legs with their head or body, and rub you behind their ears or face. This is done to leave a familiar scent on you to make it feel more comfortable, or it may also treat you as its subordinate. ​​​​​​

Licking you, like other cats, shows trust and affection. This behavior of a cat is not something that everyone would do. In their world, only those closest to them will lick each other with their tongues. So, if your cat likes to lick you, it means that your cat loves you very much, which is a cat's love behavior. So never stop your cat from licking you, otherwise the cat will think you don't like it.

When someone touches it, it will lick itself to "taste" the person's scent. This is an odor that we cannot smell but cats can detect. You know, smell is the most critical element for cats to mark their territory and collect information. Cats' scent glands are distributed in many places: such as the corners of the mouth, upper lip, paws, tail base, perianal area, and many other places. The secretions of these glands contain a lot of information about the cat, such as age, gender, whether it is in estrus, and even its mood at the time. Scratching leaves the scent on the paws as a way of marking "private territory". Cats are willing to mark everything they like as private property.

When two kittens who have never interacted with each other meet for the first time, they will sniff each other’s heads and tails to collect information about each other. Some cats take the initiative to let people know about them and give them a chance to say hello to them. Refusing such an opportunity is as rude as refusing a handshake in a human social setting.

Cats use their tongues to bathe their owners and dogs, not because they think you are dirty, but because they mean that in their little hearts, you are the most trustworthy and pleasing friends. This is a signal of obvious affection. If you feel that this method is really not easy to accept, please reject it gently and don’t easily dampen the cat’s self-esteem.

When it brings you "gifts", such as a dead mouse, it means that it has a good impression of you, and it also means that it thinks you are its mother. The owner’s complaint: Our two-year-old male cat Haha is a collector. He loves rotten fish, rotten shrimps, chicken heads and pig hands, and he loves everything. In the early morning, I was still sleeping, and suddenly I felt my chest sinking. I realized in a daze that Haha was running up to me again to act like a baby. I couldn't help but feel a warm feeling in my heart. I pulled Haha over and touched his back, and the little guy wanted to go to the quilt. I was trying to get in. I refused while pulling up the quilt. Suddenly my feet felt cold and the mud was wet.The same thing hanging on my big toe was a fish head from the trash can! I suddenly lost all sleep, so I changed the sheets and washed the quilt, and finally put everything in order when the light came out. I went to work with panda eyes and was not in a good mood all day. I really don’t understand why it likes to take garbage into the bed. Is it a deliberate prank? Or is the cat food I gave him not enough?

Sometimes cats treat their owners as their own children (which sounds a bit heartwarming). This behavior is bringing prey into the home. It regards itself as the backbone of the family and has the responsibility to find food for the unlucky owner. By observing you for a long time, the cat sadly discovered that you can’t hunt. Cats that go out often will bring home the mice and birds they catch. Cats that don’t go out will often dig through the trash can to find something for you. At this time, the owner should not scold it, otherwise it will think that you are not satisfied with the food it brought back, and next time you will find something more amazing to bring back, and put it in the most conspicuous place in the room. But if you see it transporting dead mice to your home, it’s best not to thank it. Don’t let it think that you are satisfied with this kind of prey. Next time you bring it back as ordered. The best way is to feel grateful for what your cat has done for you and quietly pack everything away.

A cat’s tail standing straight up indicates a very strong affection. You will notice that when a cat approaches a person or cat it does not know, its tail hangs down. Cats cannot say hello, but if a cat blinks slowly, it can also express happiness or affection. This brow-like way of showing affection is relatively subtle and requires careful observation by the owner to understand. The cat rolls its body to say "play with me". Cats will not play with people they don't like.

There are many ways for cats to show friendliness. If the owner spends time with the cat and observes it carefully, you will find that the cat is not unfriendly, it just behaves in different ways. When appropriate, make friendly expressions to the cat. The owner should interact with the cat to avoid hurting the cat's self-esteem.