Try the following methods to tell the cat that I am the boss:

1. Manual feeding: Change from letting the cat eat to manual feeding to let the cat know whether it has food to eat. , depending on whether you feed it or not, use food or toys to train the cat and teach it simple actions, so that the cat will realize that you can easily handle it and that you are its boss.

2. Force: Force refers to the use of mechanical stimulation and threatening commands to make the cat perform corresponding actions accurately.

For example, when training a cat to lie down, the trainer will press the cat down with his hands while giving the "lie down" command, forcing the cat to lie down. After repeating this several times, the cat will soon learn to lie down. Can form a conditioned reflex to lie down. When using this method with cats, the intensity of stimulation must be controlled, because cats often feel self-righteous and will eat soft food rather than hard food.
3. Induction: Induction refers to using food, objects or the trainer's actions to induce the cat to perform a certain action.
4. Reward: Reward is to strengthen the cat's correct actions, consolidate the formed conditioned reflex or regulate the cat's neural activity state. Reward methods include food, praise and caressing, etc.
Rewards and coercion must be combined to be effective. Every time the cat is forced to perform a correct action, a reward must be given immediately. The level of rewards should gradually increase with the difficulty of training. It should be noted that if the rewards are too frequent or the conditions are too low, it is easy for the kitten to develop a psychological habit of being disinterested in minor rewards.
5. Punishment: including scolding, intimidation, beating, etc.
Once a cat is found to have a certain bad habit, punishment should be used promptly. This will prevent the cat from feeling fearful or bored with the training.