Many people raise cats and are anxious to shorten the distance between them, but ignore its mood! According to Tadaaki Imaizumi, curator of the Japan Cat Museum and director of the Institute of Animal Science, in the book "Cat Language Dictionary", every cat Some cats are very sensitive and timid due to their growth environment or personality. If you want to get close to a cat, you must be patient and spend more time and match its pace. Only then can you truly have a good relationship with the cat. Dr. Dai Gengji, an expert on animal behavior, also said that when a cat truly "dislikes" a person or thing, it will last for at least three months and may last for a lifetime. If you don’t want to be an owner who gets “fired” by your cat, going head-on and hastily will never work!

　▲If you don’t want your cat to be disgusted and wary of you, head-on confrontation won’t work!

If your cat cannot feel at ease with you, you can tell from several signs: the cat will run away or hide when you walk into the room; it will also be unable to eat or eliminate around you. If it often stares at you with big eyes, but runs away as soon as you get close, and then continues to stare at you; or even tightens its body or roars as soon as you reach out your hand. These all indicate that there may have been some unpleasant experiences in the past that have led to the inability to trust you. If your cat used to be very close to you, but suddenly becomes very alert, it may be unwell or sick. You should carefully observe any abnormality and send it to the doctor immediately.

"Cat Language Dictionary" compiles eight NG behaviors that pet owners often have:

1. The beloved cat is hiding, but you forcefully catch it out

When your cat hides, have you ever forced it out, hugged it or played with it, without caring about its mood? When a cat hides, it may be because it is afraid or wants to be alone. Never grab it in front of guests.

Suggestions for improving relationships:

When a cat hides because of "fear", please be patient and wait for it to let go of its guard before playing with it. Let it be alone! Also, if you can prepare a safe refuge place for your cat in advance, such as a cardboard box of just the right size, The cat's nest allows the cat to hide calmly when it feels scared or hateful people or things appear.

2. Your beloved cat runs away but you chase it

When a cat sees someone it hates or is afraid of running away, if it chases it out of fun, it will feel even more panicked at that moment. In this way, it will hate this person even more. However, if you want to take it to see a doctor, especially if it needs an emergency, you must take it to the hospital even if it is unwilling.

Suggestions for improving relationships:

If you forcefully capture your cat and put it in a cat basket in order to take it to the doctor, the cat may view the owner as scary.people. You should let it get used to staying in the cat basket and give it the toys it likes so that it won't be afraid.

3. Sudden movements or loud noises frightened it

Timid kittens are most sensitive to loud noises or sudden movements. For example, if you scare it by standing up suddenly or sneezing, it will become wary invisibly. Men, in particular, are very rude in their movements and have loud voices, which often scare cats.

Suggestions for improving relationships:

Be as gentle as possible so as not to scare your cat. Also, when your cat is frightened by sounds or movements, let him run away and hide with confidence. For those who have accidentally scared a cat, you might as well feed it food with the person it likes to create a positive connection and slowly let it know that you are not such a scary person.

4. Your beloved cat will leave painful memories for you

When you accidentally step on your cat's tail and it feels pain, it will be wary of you at first, but over time, it will probably forgive you. What you should be wary of is mischievous children, who may play tricks on your cat and leave it with painful memories. Also, when you feed your cat medicine, you have to do it even if it hates it, which may leave painful memories for it. Not to mention corporal punishment.

Suggestions for improving relationships:

When a cat has painful memories due to treatment or medicine, as long as you treat it gently afterwards, the cat will forget about it. Children who cannot predict the psychology of cats are the most difficult. If children are present, prepare a safe shelter for them. When children play with cats, they must be supervised, and timely dissuade and teach children the correct concept of treating cats.