Does your cat kiss you?

Will it express its concern for you frequently?

Will it often jump on your lap and act coquettishly with you?

Will it run to the door when you get off work to greet your return?

Or will it perform certain mandatory behaviors to let you know that it loves you?

Maybe not all cats are good at expressing their love for you directly.

Some cats are naturally shy, but they will still show their love to you in their own unique way, but if you know it well, you will ignore it.

▍Subtle signs of love

If you think your cat is aloof, watch for the following behaviors. If there is, it means that it is not indifferent, but you need to find the eyes of love more.

These behaviors include:

On your leg, rub its cheek

Blinking at you slowly

Raise your tail high, and the upper part will keep shaking

Sit near you

I’m stepping on my breasts, even if it’s not on your body

Bring you half-dead "prey", such as mice and sparrows

Rolling around, I’ll show you its belly

Some of the above-mentioned behaviors may have been known to you before, and some may not be known to you.

In any case, after discovering these behaviors in the future, it means that your cat loves you and it feels safe and comfortable staying by your side.

Then, at this time, you should also tell them in your own way that you love them too.

　▍How to tell it you love it

There are some very simple methods that can help you establish a communication bridge with your cat in a short time.

These methods include:

​Blink slowly at your cat

Spend at least ten minutes a day interacting with them with toys

Buy it a big and comfortable cat nest

Buy him a sturdy and fun cat climbing frame

Give it a place to hide

If it likes to be hugged, give it more hugs every day

　▍How to make your cat more loving

​First of all, we have to admit that the cat of a relative depends largely on heredity. There are many excellent bloodlines, and the kittens are born as relatives and do not even need social training.

Of course, it is absolutely not advisable not to train. I am just emphasizing the importance of bloodline.

However, one thing must be made clear. It does not mean that a good-looking cat with standard appearance has a good pedigree. It is also very important to examine a cat’s pedigree and personality. Many new breeders tend to ignore this point.

Cats can start socialization training when they are more than 20 days old

So when the cat grows up, what should it do if it is no longer so family?

How can you change a "cat that doesn't sit on your lap" into a "cat that loves to sit on your lap"?

I have planned some simple methods for you:

Increase its safety: Big cats need a sense of security, so give them a comfortable place to hide. With a sense of security, it is possible for it to slowly get close to you. Instead of being wary of you.

You have to stay calm: when it does something wrong, you must control your emotions and don't vent, otherwise your relationship may go further and further away. Some cats are very vindictive.

Use positive reinforcement: give it delicious food, let it slowly come closer to you, and have a good impression of you. Don’t expect it to sit on your lap anytime soon. But as time goes by, it will grow fonder of you. It all starts with you sitting on the floor and interacting with it.

Quiet and gentle: Once it sits on your lap, don't do anything drastic, don't move, just let it happen slowly. Once it gets used to it, it's not too late to start brushing it again. The key policy is "to be stable."

Don’t do the things that make it unpleasant at the same time: do things like manicure, medication, and ear picking, don’t do them on your lap, just on the table or the floor, and don’t do them at the same time.

It all takes a little patience, so don’t rush and take your time, cats are man’s best friend.